Tuesday Tip #9: Stop blaming your spouse...

"She won't talk to me!" "He never listens!" "She is always on the phone." "He is never on time." "I'm waiting on him to do that before I can do this." 

STOP! Stop blaming your spouse. When you go before God in the last days, He is not going to accept your excuses. It will not matter what your spouse did. God is only concerned about what you are doing. Are you reading His Word and abiding in Him? (John 15:4). Are you praying for your spouse to be man/woman of God? Are you exhibiting a godly mindset when dealing with your spouse? God wants to use your marriage to show the world His love for the church. Don't let Him down. 

This week's tip: Don't blame your spouse for anything this week. Be more understanding and listen to his/her complaints in a different way in which you hear a cry for what they need. Then try to meet that need. Treat your spouse with adoration and show him/her how much you love them. 

Let me know how well you did this week. Leave your comments below.