Hello. Good morning. Thank you. You're welcome. Excuse me. Please. Is there anything you need? How are you? I miss you. You look nice. I appreciate you. I'm sorry.
There is nothing wrong with a little common courtesy. We learned it grade school. We practiced how to be courteous and cordial. We apply it on our jobs. Why can't we use it in our homes, with our spouses, with our children, with our friends, and relatives?
So many times we take each other for granted and assume we don't have to be courteous because "they know we love them" or "they know how we feel". Your spouse does not know how you feel unless you show it. And what better way to show it than with words and deeds. Let them know that you do appreciate them for preparing dinner. That you are sorry for not calling when you were going to be late. That you do miss them when they are away. That it is a good morning every time you wake up next to them.
Common courtesy - basically the little things you do to make your loved one feel special. It only takes a moment.
Scenario One:
Husband: "Honey I just called to let you know that I was running late and that I should be home before 5pm".
Wife: "Thank you for calling. I really appreciate that. I'll keep your dinner warm."
Scenario Two:
Wife: "I'm sorry I didn't get a chance to wash your gym clothes. I will try to get to it by the weekend."
Husband: "That's okay. I know you've been busy. I thank you for thinking about me."
Scenario Three:
Wife: "I'm going in the kitchen, is there anything I can get for you; another dinner roll; some more tea?"
Husband: "Oh sure, I would like some more tea, please."
Scenario Four:
Husband: "Good morning, beautiful."
Wife: "Well hello to you to."
Common courtesy. It only takes a moment. It lasts a lifetime. Safeguard your spouse's heart. Be kind. Be courteous. (Ephesians 4:32).
**It's also okay to use this courtesy with friends, relatives, & people who cross our paths. :)
Thank you.
