Thursday, April 28, 2016

Don't Judge a book by it's Cover

I'm a former English Teacher and an avid reader. I love books. I like how I'm drawn to a book by its colorful cover. The smell of new pages and interesting summary gets me every time. However there are times when I've almost passed up a good read because of an unattractive cover. This happens in life as well. We have a certain picture in mind of how we want our spouse to look and we might even pray to God for particular characteristics. Then we pass up those persons God sends our way because they aren't packaged the way we think they should be.

That was almost the case with El and I. I was praying to God for a spouse and I asked Him for all the great qualities I think a man should have. But when I met El, I almost passed him up because he wasn't packaged the way I thought he should be. God knew what I needed and God sent me exactly what I needed. I just didn't know at the time El was the one. But I'm so glad I decided to open the cover and turn a few pages to peruse the contents before setting the book down for good. I only needed to read the prologue and the summary to determine that El was going to hold my interest. And I was right! He was certainly a page turner but not in the way that I will finish reading him quickly. He has sequels that will never end. In fact there are parts of his story that haven't been written yet and when they're published I'll be first in line to get the one and only copy.

Don't judge a book by its cover. For those of you who are single, your book may be staring you right in the face. And for those married, dust that book jacket off and explore the endless possibilities of love. How is your story going to end?

Monday, April 18, 2016

No cash No gas - video

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Tuesday, April 12, 2016

Tuesday Tip #11: Endless Love

From the outside, El and I appear to have it all put together. However, even though we've come a long way, we still have a long way to go. We have learned so much about being married through marriage conferences, books, podcasts, and teaching. Our marriage class lesson this past Sunday was based on Bill Elliff's 8 Lies that Destroy Marriage. One of the lies states, "If I don't love my spouse any longer, I should get a divorce." 

This lie resonated with me because I thought about the time period when I felt as if I no longer loved El because of infidelity and I wanted a divorce. But God! If I had not stayed, we would not have gotten to reap the wonderful benefits that we now enjoy. Sometimes it may seem that because you no longer love your spouse that divorce is inevitable. But love can be restored and renewed (read "Can my marriage be healed after infidelity"). We're living proof, our love has been restored and renewed! We have been through the fire and come out on the other side as pure gold. 

Our love is endless. El is my best friend and even though we don't always see eye to eye, one thing is for sure, I will always love him and he will always love me. And this isn't the kind of love that just says we love. This is the kind of love that shows we love! Is it perfect? Never. But it's real! 


Is your love endless? 

This week's tip is to look for those good qualities in your spouse and tell them how much they mean to you. Make your love endless. 




Check in with us and let us know how you did!

Tuesday, April 5, 2016

Tuesday Tip #10: Are you fleeing from temptation?

I just completed a 7 day devotion on temptation. I started the devotion to help me gain control over my food addiction and stray from the temptation of overeating. But what about the temptation we encounter as a married couple? Do we recognize the enemy's trickery? Do we know when we're being tempting? Do we know how to flee? Are we calling on Christ in times such as these? God has given us an escape route when we encounter temptation (1 Corinthians 10:13). The success of your marriage relies on you being able to flee temptation. And don't think that this temptation is going to announce it's arrival or give you a loud trumpet's warning. No! Temptation comes slyly and many times we don't realize we've been hit until it is too late. 

How to flee temptation...
1. Pray diligently that God will keep you alert and that you will be able to recognize immediately when temptation presents itself.
2. Pray that you will flee instantly and not entertain any thoughts of the sweet nectar.
3. Stay in God's Word by devouring it daily.
4. Spend all of your free time with your spouse. Enjoy each other's company often to ward off temptation.
5. Repeat steps 1-4. 

Let me know how well you did this week in fleeing temptation. 

Are there any tips you'd like to see? Let me know.